Ok for a lot of us our relationships seem to grow stale over time. Too many let this be the reason to go out and cheat or to get a divorce. My opinion is to go back to when you first started dating. What first attracted you to your mate? What did he or she do that got you feeling all warm and fuzzy inside? (I know you men may not admit to feeling warm and fuzzy but you get the point)
Well the problem seems to be that we get so bogged down by the day to day hustle and bustle that we forget to take time out for one another. That helps to cause the feelings of being unappreciated and unwanted. We have to remember there were special things we did in the beginning to let our partner know we wanted them and now is not the time to let those things fall to the waist side.
Walks in the park, candle lit dinner at home (gas is too high these days :) ) rub his/her feet, run some bath water or take a shower together, write little love notes, just any little thing to let them know they are loved and appreciated. Have the house clean, if it's hasn't been lately. Just whatever it takes to rock your partners boat and the key is not to stay in YOUR comfort zone. You have to step outside yourself, outside your norm so that they know: "BABY I LOVE AND APPRECIATE YOU". Keep the sparks bright....it doesn't have to be every night but at the least once a month people. This is your life we're talking about!